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- Oopsie Daisy
- Everyone is welcome! The only real rules here are no spamming shit and no posting personal addresses, phone numbers or other similar info. I don't need that kind of stress. That's it, although it could change if someone gets creative or something. If you don't like what is said here, you can: 1) Say so; 2) Hold it in and stew on it; 3. Address it privately to the person who said it; 4) Snark about it to your friends; 5) Leave. Don't bother me with it, I don't care and I won't get involved. I might, however, talk about you behind your back or post your email/message to me on here. *grins* Them's the rules...all of them. Have fun!
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 289 of 289 Newer› Newest»He is a civil service employee first and a reservists 2nd. Basically, it would probably get him fired. He does pretty well at work, so I would only go to them if I were desperate. Right now I'm just annoyed and angry.
Thanks guys. I've been dealing with this crap for 11 of the 12 years we have been married.
AP: I could stay with my mom and dad but my dad has some major health issues and I don't want add anymore stress onto what they are already dealing with. My brother and I are "estranged".
Sandy and Mulie - I am so sorry to hear about AHs. With kids that take so much time and all your hard work with them and then they do this crap. Mulie - with his suicide tendencies, the meds and drinking...that is very alarming.
I generally just keep it to myself, because the majority of my family and friends are extremely judgmental and close minded.
Did my last comment not post?
No, it did, just wasn't showing up on my screen.
Oh there y'all are...I thought mine did not either Mulie-must be because it flipped to the next page.
Mulie, I thought my computer was running slow or something. My posts are taking a while to show up too.
At least he's off his cell phone now. He was sending all kids of emails from his phone that I couldn't read, because when sent from his phone, the wouldn't show up in his sent box. I think I'm going to remove internet from our phones permanently. That will save up $30 a month (that we can't afford anyway) and keep him a little more in check.
"with his suicide tendencies, the meds and drinking...that is very alarming."
And not new. We are going on our 10th year of marriage and the above is pretty much status quo. Nothing new.
Is he manic/depressive with it as well?
Kristin - So glad to hear you got a better nights sleep and than LM is feeling better!
Good morning, all.
Mulie, Sandy, I am so sorry. :(
Hey RiM! How are you?
Hey Kaytie! Thanks!
Morning RiM. How are you?
KatieJ - I don't know about m/d. I grew up in a home with a bi-polar mother, so I am familiar with the rage of moods coming out of a m/d person.
He is on the fringe with his thoughts. He lives in a world of comic books, anime, and sci-fi. He is extremely materialistic and a stuff based. He tries very hard to be weird and different.
Hi Kristin and Sandy! I am good - I have a horrible stomachache but I'm thinking it's because I sucked down a bunch of yogurt and almonds and a gallon (not literally) of water really fast after I got home from the gym. I'll be fine.
Now I'm getting suck up text messages from AH.
My daughter is having a Spring musical at school tonight. They have to be there at 5:30 and the thing doesn't start until 6pm. She is so excited about it. Her hero is Miley Cyrus.
I killed it didn't I. ::hangs trollope head in shame and walks self to corner::
Mulie - Exciting personality to be around but so very exhausting. I'm sorry he is putting you through this.
Sandy - Good luck to your daughter at her musical!
RiM - No wonder you're having a stomache..OUCH! That is colon clearing treatment! <---is that a Daisy?
Hi ladies - I just watched the partridge video again. I can't believe danny bona... is still alive.
Sandy - WTF you're sharing more over here... I'm sorry you are married to a turd - nobody should have to go through that!
No you did not Sandy, I think I did :-D
Mulie - I'm sorry for you too - I just know more about Sandy's doucetastic hubs.
Good morning ladies
Sandy and Mulie I am so sorry that your husbands are being such douchebags. I know how hard it is when there are kids involved especially and it is such a gray area of "cheating" but it is still soooo not ok and I wish I had the words to tell you that it will all be ok.
Margaret, he's a douche canoe all right. Now he's sending me suck up text messages and says he has a headache. I've had a heartache for 11 years!
On a good note I did get a little bit of a break today in my world.
After nearly 2 freaking hours of fighting with my school's website I finally got registered for my classes....Hoping I am not getting in over my head but I tried to keep it with a light class, a moderate class, and another freaking math class...good news with the math is that I think I only have 2 more after this one WOOOHOOOO.
I checked how much my books would be and they will be less then 200 bucks for all 3 classes. My economics class has the book available online so there is no need to buy it YAY!!! This makes me happy because this is my short on money term!!!
Woo Hoo on the math, Shannon. It would make me happy too.
Sandy - when I build my all-fem compound you and the kids are welcome to come live!
Thanks Margaret! LOL
Sandy you have no idea :)
Hopefully you can have some kind of a happy revelation with things that will help to settle things with your married life. :) I have to tell ya though I dont envy you at all.
Shannon, I know what I have to do but I am just so mixed up in my thoughts. Once I can get my mind straight, things will fall into place.
I totally understand that Sandy. What you are dealing with isnt cut and dry.....no matter which choice you make to someone it isnt going to be the right one. I know that in the end you will make the best decision for you and your family and I know that either way you are strong enough that you will be able to live with that choice.
Margaret used doucetastic in a sentance - Margaret is my new hero!
I have too much to do and not enough time to do it.
aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh!
Hey ladies!
anyone heard from Kathleen lately?
Thanks Shannon!
Margaret is the best isn't she! LOL
Kristin, take a deep breath!
I'm out for a while. Gotta drop the boy off at school and then grocery shop. Fun Times.
I think I am just going to stay single for the rest of my life :)
Sandy - if you ever want to chat or talk off the blog, you can always e-mail me. klgseaaggie75 (at) gmail
same with anyone else :)
Shannon - any new developments on the theif?
Nothing yet but then again Jeremy hasnt even had time to try to do an inventory of what was taken out of his truck....Of course the day that his stuff was stolen they got in a crap load of work orders and that morning they were beginning a $7000 trash out of a place that from what I have heard is DISGUSTING.
"when I build my all-fem compound"
Are you insane? The catfights, the sniping and snarking, the petty tantrums and grudges, the emotions and tears...oh, my God...
But now I must go run amok. My nail clippers broke on me and these things are getting out of control....thank goodness my best friend does nails and will get them all nice and neat for me so I dont have to trial and error myself into no nails LOL
Oh yeah and the grocery shopping thing too FUN!!! Not so much lol
...and the banning! LMAO
ROFL AP it would be like real life Bad Girls Club, it could be fun to watch on TV :)
Yes...the banning! Can you imagine? There would be 18 little tents pitched in a group outside the compound in no time flat.
I admit, it would be an excellent reality show, Shannon. And you just reminded me, I need to do my toenails today.
Sandy & Mulie- I'm so very sorry about the AHs. :(
RiM- I hope the stomachache goes away soon!
Shannon- Yay for good news :)
How was the movie Corinne?
Kristin - "Precious" was hard to watch. It is a beautiful movie about resilience.
There were moments I wanted to cry but the tears wouldn't come because of the emotional shock, kwim? (Of course, there were other moments I really cried).
And, I killed it :P
COrinne - I'm here. Working on another portion of a transcript of an estate where the guy was nicknamed Pud. Riveting. Not.
I want to see Precious.
hee hee! I'm here, just working and trying to stay awake.
I probably won't see the movie since it has been years (Mr. and Mrs. Smith) since I have been to a theater to see any movie.
Pud - I don't even want to know!
I sent my AH a get-your-shit-together email.
Good for you Mulie!
Would you be able to support yourself if you left him?
I have another GF with an AH who is trying to figure out how to leave him. We talked about starting our own female compound too. Kind of like "Big Love" with out an AH.
They actually say it more like pood, like the way the first part of pudding sounds. But still.
RiM & Kristin- Precious is definitely worth seeing.
RiM- Pud?! Do I want to know?
Mulie- again, I'm sorry :(
Mulie - is that going to out you for his passwords and stuff?
Where do you live again Mulie?
"Would you be able to support yourself if you left him?"
Haha! We just moved to a low income town and I'm 6 months pregnant and have a 4 and almost 2 year old. Not bloody likely. Esp since we bought a 200k house last year that he picked out, while knowing he had his internet double life.
AP - I've read your blog, you are a smart lady, but I hold steadfast to my dream of an all fem compound :)
Kristin - douchetastic and bastardization are my words for 2010!
And now for a shameless marketing plug, I'm having a give-away on my bloggy... I hope I haven't grammie-a-fied myself to you all for plugging myself here.
ahhh....gotcha - I'm sorry!
"Mulie - is that going to out you for his passwords and stuff?"
No, I just lamented about past actions, what I could see on his checkoutmyink.com public profile, and my woman's "intuition".
Not at all (well not to me anyway)!
I have a headache and want to sleep and I have way too much shit to do before this weekend :(
Do you want to give us his info and we can all go there and tell him what a douche canoe he is?
I consider myself pretty resourceful though. In theory, I would at least get the 40k we put down on the house, get a chuck of his 50k 401k, half his 2 pensions from Beoing, and ha;f of his military and civil service retirement. I wouldn't get divorced until absolutely necessary, so I could keep my health insurance, but I would still try and get help from WIC and whatnot until I could get a good job and decide where to move the kids and myself.
I was trying to find links to all the stuff these bitches were saying about me after I deleted his profile, so you could see the trash he has a "friends", it was some pretty good stuff!
:( I'm sorry. I know that isn't much.
I'm a single mom - with one but I started out that way.
It sucks not having someone you can trust or talk to. I can't imagine with 2 and one on the way.
Margaret, I'll come visit your compound if I'm invited but otherwise, I think I'll get myself a nice little high-rise condo in a neighboring town. ;-)
http://www.checkoutmyink.com/members/otaking/bulletins/93872
Here's what my husband wrote after several chicks, I kid you not, threatened to burn me at the stake,
Mulie, he's disgraceful for letting other women speak of you that way. I'm really sorry. No spouse should have to deal with that. :-(
Have you tried any type of counseling?
I am sorry that you are having to go through all of it.
*Uncovers one eye*
Hi. Am I welcome here? Apparently I'm not welcome "there" anymore and I don't know why. I tried to stay neutral and be supportive and am just dumbfounded. Oh well.
Read the past couple of days and it seems I'm not the only one. Sad. :o(
Okay, I read what he said, Mulie, and it was nice. It sounds like he was trying there. So, he's back at it, you think, despite that?
He didn't know they were hammering me so hard. I deleted his original profile and deleted everyone from the site he had added as friends on FB. He created his new account to "set the record straight, which is what that link was supposed to be about.
Apparently he broke up with his "girlfriend" after she wouldn't stop talking shit about me. Nicccce. They had been "broken up" for almost 5 months before I figured out his whole other life with this tattoo site thingy.
TARA!!! I'm awfully glad to see you but I'm sorry for what happened. Another one hurt and that sucks. You have always been welcome here, though, and always will be. Settle in. :-)
Mulie- Holy shit! I'm sorry you're going through that :(
Hi Tara! Everyone is welcome here :)
I swear, Mulie, you just shouldn't have to live with this worry. It's just wrong.
No, he's not totally back at it. He sent some "flirty" messages to another chick begging her to email him because he's so board. He sent her some flirty messages another time and I caught him and did some communicating with her. Thank god, she is a cool chick. She is a truck driver and is used to guys coming onto her all the time and just humors them back. She doesn't even post real pictures of herself online. I don't know if he was trying to flirt/communicate with her because he knows it's "safe" or because he doesn't know who she actually is and wants to find out.
Mulie, Maybe me and you should start that fem-commune!
I have hard copy of everything my husband and the girlfriend said about me. This girl has been married and divorced twice and was/is giving me marriage advice. She was even telling him how he could get the kids away from me.
"you just shouldn't have to live with this worry. It's just wrong."
I couldn't agree more. It is just ridicules. I know men were AHs before the internet, but damn, the internet sure makes it easier on them.
Sandy, Does he act like he wants out of the marriage?
Mulie, oh hell no. He walks around here like he's done NOTHING wrong.
Tara - I sent you an e-mail. I hope that is okay.
I am sorry that you were banned. It is a weird feeling for sure.
When he left for a week last year, his evil mother forced him to come back. She refused to help him.
Sandy, So she is convincing him to leave or he's telling her he wants to but playing dumb with you? Have you done counseling yet?
My AH has been in counseling since right after this all went down, but we haven't gone together yet. He needs to get his head on straight before I join that party.
*** new post up ***
My husband wanted to move out last year (a month after we closed on our new house mind you) and I'm sure he would have if I had rented him an apartment, packed his shit, and moved him there.
bye Mulie!
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