Bella, I get that way in the summer months...just down and blah. I stay squirreled away and come out at night and on rainy days. That shared, enjoy your game!
BD, we're not even all that exciting these last couple of days and you're still addicted. Excellent. ;-)
Ugh, this is ridiculous. I sat down to watch Shear Genius and fell asleep again. Go for it, FT, it seems to work well for me.
Shannon, I hope things get to going better for you with the math stuff. You shound beyone stressed. :-(
Kristin, feel better and you, too, SW. I miss you around here.
What the heck do they do with that baby's brain? I mean, do they have it in a little bag hanging from his head or something? Maybe that's why they need all the socks...maybe they stuff it into a clean sock?
I think Daisy died. Shall we just shut the doors for good tomorrow? *stern look*
Here's a question or ten for everyone: Whatever happened to shame? Why have we become a nation (world? FT, Corinne and DK?) that no longer has any shame? It used to be shameful to be a parent who can't support your children on your own. To not be able to provide a basic roof over the children you chose to bring into this world on your own or basic food for them. It used to be shameful to have a child out of wedlock (and trust me, I use the word wedlock loosely since I have no fondness for government-sanctioned marriage). It used to be shameful to not pay your bills, to not meet your agreed obligations. It used to be shameful to cheat on a spouse and lord knows I did that and was ashamed (still am) but many people still find me silly to be ashamed oof it over 10 years later. I'm just curious as to what everyone things was the defining factor is in bringing that down because frankly, I think we could all do with a lot more shame for our poor actions. Instead, now, we seem to want to put labels on it and excuse it. And this isn't random, by the way...it's a chain of thought resulting from reading some blogs (no one from our group, past or present) that I've not read in ages.
Morning Sarah - I hear ya on the cajones part and the resentment part. I am sorry you are having a rough time.
Morning all others.
SO seems to be sick. I told him he should probably go to the doctor.
I have a headache :(
How are you feeling AP? SW?
I am ashamed about a lot of things, especially about having a child out of wedlock and it was so hard to tell my mother because of that shame. I am so very grateful for him in my life though.
Alright, going to go take something for the throbbing in my head and get ready for work!
BD- I hope your friend and her baby will be alright. As for dry shampoo, do you have the brand Klorane in the US? Their dry shampoo is good.
CK- I should copyright my comments? ;-) LOL. I really don't mind that she used it. :)
Kristin- You should really go to a physician for your headaches; you have them quite often. I realize that the lack of sleep doesn't help... Sorry :(
AP- I think there is a sense of entitlement amongst people from my generation, hence the lack of shame. Many young adults feel as though they deserve all the financial aid they can get, and they don't think about the future.
Kristin- I'm fine :) It's a beautiful day out, so that makes me happy. Plus, I bought this new cleaning product which I was eager to try, so I cleaned the house. It smells great.
Kristin- It would take an awful lot for me to believe what that woman is saying. That post -well, the 'feelings' in it- sounds eerily similar to the one Kelly Stamps (I think) posted after her Compassion trip.
Corinne, you can tell the entire post is written based on emotions. Would I say something like that if I was in a 3rd World country with people living in squalor (sp?), you can bet your life on it.
Would I come home and sell my stuff and live in a trailer down by the lake? Reality, absolutely not.
Sandy- You know something that annoys me with that 'Compassion' thing? That they have to travel so far away to be touched by human misery. For God's sake, there are people living in squalor in Europe and America too; there are people dying on the streets here too; there are people who can't afford basic healthcare here too. It just annoys me. We should care about the people here and solve their problems before traveling halfway across the world to realize that, yes, there are people who don't know how they'll get through the day or even afford food to feed their family.
Morning all! Catching up on comments from yesterday:
AP said: “Oh, and how I woke up from my nap? My dumbfuck son is sitting 3 feet from me with an electric bass and an amp, totally oblivious to anyone but himself, and belts out with the theme song from Jeopardy. When I shot 3 feet up and came down cussing, he looks all confused and says, "I"m sorry...am I bothering you?"
This? Made me LOL!
BD, you are a good friend. Hope your bedrest friend is doing well. Muffalettas rock.
Bella, this time of the year is hard. Right before it starts to get warm. I’m so freaking sick of wearing my coat, which is dirty and needs a good cleaning.
AP, I agree with you that the summer is worse for me. Our summers aren’t as brutal as yours, but they are bad. August is the pits.
CK, let us know how you like The Hangover. It was the funniest movie I’ve ever seen.
Sarah, thanks for sharing. I really admire your honesty.
AP, I thought your “shame” question/rant was a wee bit harsh. But you warned us you were in a foul mood. :-) For what it's worth, I blame the baby boomers, who, for whatever reason, eschewed the good parenting they got in favor of “liberal” parenting that is not responsibility-based.
I'm feeling a bit better today, but still kinda lousy and definitely phlegmy. Ugh. Hope the other sickies are doing better today.
Corinne -- I've said exactly that same thing in so many words, and posted those sentiments to the Pioneer Woman's site when they did their whole Compassion trip. I think it's just fine and dandy, but there are people in your *own country, suffering, and I really think you ought to start at home if you're going to help out. JMO and all that.
Shame. I have plenty. And today is not the day for me to be talking about it. Fuck.
Corinne - I so totally agree!!! All you have to do is work with a local food bank or aid agency and you see just as much squalor - it's just a little prettier. I'm not saying we shouldn't help internationally because we should, but there are soooo many needs in your own back yard.
And I would *not at all be happy to donate money to sponsor a child and find out that it's paid for trip upon trip for bloggers. I would definitely be interested to know how much of your dollar actually goes to the child as opposed to advertising, PR and other overhead.
And I'm not going to read JM's post, because it's complete BS. I don't even have to read it to know it's BS. But I heart Melissa Fitzpatrick. And I am being completely sincere when I say LPM has changed my life. In case y'all were wondering.
Kristin- Right?! It's like JM read that post and then wrote her own.
Hi SW! Glad to hear you're doing better :)
Hi RiM- Yeah. These 'compassion bloggers'are completely oblivious to what is happening in their *own country and it's only when someone offers them a trip that costs several thousands dollars that they write posts saying 'My heart is breaking. These people have nothing, yet they are willing to give you a lot. I realized I am so selfish'. Well, fuck. This is totally obnoxious of them. Plus, I'm sure Mck is toting her camera that costs more than the homes she's visiting in Kenya. Grrr.
Okay - so totally random - but I don't go to church - have thought about it to be a "part" of something, to be involved in the community but helping others is obviously something that I am very interested in.
Can anyone point me in a direction that I could look at helping - at some point I would love to travel to get the cultural aspect, but I know there is much suffering here on our backyard. I guess I could look at soup kitchens and stuff. I don't want to be a part of something that uses money for advertising and "looks" but something that is "real".
Hey K! I'm sorry you've not been feeling well. We are fighting it over here. Hubs sounds like he belongs in the TB ward. Hopefully the rest of us won't get it that bad - mostly because I hate him and want him to suffer ::wink:: but want the rest of us to be find :) Is LM still on his nebulizer, or is he free of it? Oh, and any news on your grandpa?
Kristin - I would call the United Way. They can usually match you up with agencies that need volunteers and you can find one that you are interested in. My favorite where I live and have volunteered with for a long time was found that way.
I woke up to the smell of Icey Hot and SO puking! Good times!
He has been complaining of a knot in his side and thought it was a pulled muscle, said the Icey Hot made it feel better. He spoke to his cousin (in Colorado) who is a trainer who said it sounded like a pulled muscle but after the puking today, I'm thinking it might be something else. I told him he better go see a doctor. He said he will tomorrow.
There is always Habitat for Humanity and any thrift store, children's hospitals, VA hospitals, the Red Cross, and March of Dimes, just right off the top of my head, Kristen. Figure out what you are interested in doing and choose an organization based on your interests.
Sarah, that would be hard when you have a child who need special care...you need a partner in that, someone you can have absolute trust in. I've never been there but it seems to me like having a spouse you can't totally trust in making good decisions might be harder than just doing it alone. And as to the shame thing, I don't think anyone ever ought to be ashamed of having little or not-so-great things as long as you came by what you have honestly and on your own. Speaking only for myself, I have more *far respect and admiration for someone living in an old, ratty travel trailer they pay for themselves than someone living in a better, subsidized place. Not that I'm saying you live in an old, ratty travel trailer, mind you. I just don't think you should be ashamed of your house maybe not being so great, that's all.
Corinne, I think you're right about the sense of entitlement in young people now. I see it in my own to a degree and lord knows he was raised with me so he ought not be that way. But even in people more my age, I see it and just don't understand it.
By the way, what's the new cleaning product you found?
I like habitat - I have done that once through a company I used to work for but I didn't get to meet the family or see pics of the finished project or anything.
I have thought about Red Cross b/c when I was down in Galveston I volunteered at a shelter every day and we had a student that was sent to Louisiana b/c she was part of the coast guard or similar.
I just need to get back to volunteering. My problem is LM - I either need him to come along or find someone to watch him. My family doesn't understand my need and I feel uncomfortable asking them.
You may be able to find a small organization that would let you bring him. When Chloe was a baby, I just set up the play pen and helped out while Grayson played. Then when Chloe became a toddler and Grayson was in preschool, it got a little harder, so I cut back, but now I'm ready to get back into the swing of things. A lot of organizations realize that mothers of young children have a lot to contribute, so they are cool with bringing the kids along. I think especially if you find a charity where kids are their main focus. My organization provides free clothing to school aged kids, so kids are a passion for everyone who volunteers there, which made mine even more accepted.
AP- It's called MrPropre Home Therapy and the fragrance is Grapefruit & Green Tea. I think MrPropre is MrClean in the US but I don't know if they carry that product in America because I know the rules concerning detergents vary from country to country.
'AP, I thought your “shame” question/rant was a wee bit harsh. But you warned us you were in a foul mood. :-) For what it's worth, I blame the baby boomers, who, for whatever reason, eschewed the good parenting they got in favor of “liberal” parenting that is not responsibility-based."
I don't think I was harsh...shame is an underrated emotion these days and I think it should make a comeback. I do agree with what you said here, though. It did seem to all start with the boomer generation but I can't seem to pinpoint what specific thing started it, if anything.
Glad you're feeling better!
I'm echoing everyone else here about poverty and squalor right here in our own country. It doesn't make for reading as interesting as going to Africa, though. Here's my take on that...I'd bet the majority of Mck's readers (in fact, the majority of most mom-blogges' readers) are white and that variety of white people don't want to see a bunch of poor white or brown kids. It's not good enough for them. They want to see poor, very dark black kids with flies on their noses and distended bellies massed around a white Christian woman who has come to save them so they can feel *really* self-righteous about their $20 donation.
I guess maybe that one needs an "oopsie daisy...I said that?" added on.
Sarah, Hang in there, sister. We have our own set of problems here that do not make for a barrel of laughs, so while I can't directly relate, I feel you on more than a few husband related points.
I once did a volunteer trip to the poorest county in the US on a Lakota Reservation. There is was lack of jobs and opportunities. In Africa, it is undeveloped and politically charged. I believe there is quite a difference. I think that the tribes in Africa should be modernized, only if they want to, not because we think they need to be. Africa needs to be safe for woman and children and I think the should have access to clean water and vaccines.
Corinne, that cleaner sounds wonderful! I know Mr. Clean doesn't have that scent here or I'd have bought it already. I did find a gardenia scented cleaner the other day and used it over the whole house before the HFH came. It smelled *so good in here.
Thanks Taiya! We figured at least there wouldn't be a whole lot of Graysons out there. We actually tried to pick unpopular names for all our boys, but when we got a daughter we picked a totally trendy name. Don't know why!
Is your daughter feeling better? (I wasn't keeping notes, but I call my kids snot buckets when they're sick, too!)
Taiya, We are having the same problem. I have a few girl names that I love, but hubby isn't feeling them. He likes the name Rowen and that is just not rolling off my tongue.
I think it wouldn't have quite the same impact if some of these mommy bloggers went and volunteered at the local Y during their Invest in Youth campaign and helped inner city youth. It's just not shiny and flashy. Even though, I just found out that $5/month can keep one kid in the after school program and off the street or help needy children get swimming lessons. That's something pretty important, too.
AP- Gardenia cleaner...that sounds great. We have so many different scents at home, it's crazy. Everytime I go grocery shopping, I buy a new one. If you ever see me in a store, I'll be smelling the cleaning products ;-)
Taiya- I sometimes lurk on the babynames.com board, need name advice section. They have great discussions about names going on there. Oh and try nymbler.com. Cool site.
"Even though, I just found out that $5/month can keep one kid in the after school program and off the street or help needy children get swimming lessons. That's something pretty important, too."
It really is, Lindsay. What programs are these through...any you can share here? I admit, I'm a strong believer in not wasting money, even on people.
Lindsay - on the grandfather front, my aunt e-mailed me and says that grandpa likes to expand on his problems and also doesn't get all the info. So for now, apparently he has not scheduled the surgery. My uncle was down there and went to talk to the doctor with my grandpa but ended up my grandpa didn't have an appt and doc wasn't around so they talked to a nurse.
It's up in the air right now, all they know is it is cancer and he needs surgery.
Taiya, Not the biggest fan, for myself that is, of names ending in the "lee" or "e" sound. Coming from a person who's names ends in an "e" sound and current fav baby name ends in "e" sound.
Also, if the popularity of names is something important to you (i.e. not using a name that is too common), you can check names popularity on this site:
It astonishes me that she didn't mention or give any background really about Compassion or the fact that she was sponsoring a child. She is selfish and all about her. Heaven forbid the sheeple send money to these people and not her.
Corinne, you're really my daughter, aren't you? ;-) We have two lines of cleaners here, Fabuloso and Festival, that come in the best scents! I get so darn excited when they make a new one.
SW - I was going to make your roast today but I woke up late and after hearing a sick SO, I figured I will try tomorrow since I should have prepped the night before and I didn't. I also had to pack LM's lunch which I usually do the night before also and didn't.
Kristin, I hope the roast turns out good. AP's suggestion to use onion soup mix in lieu of some of the seasoning is a good idea too. I forgot that I sometimes do that.
Taiya, I think there are many, many people like your brother. If you're going to preach it, though, then *do something about it, I agree. And if I were you, I'd not limit the picking to just him. ;-)
Ok seriously do you people know what you did to me last night???!!
Now I realize that many of you life in Eastern Time but I live in Pacific. I am on here last night and reading about how tired you all are. I had to put the computer down and decided to play some video games to wake me back up....Yeah didnt work!!!!
I was passed out dead to the world at 8 freaking 30 last night!!!! And I only woke up about 45 minutes ago. That is not something that ever happens LOL
Wow, Shannon! It sounds like you needed a good rest. I've been sleeping looonng nights too. Last night asleep before 9:30, slept until 7:00. Amazing what good a triple dose of Nyquil can do!
Yes I think I really did need that extra sleep. It is amazing how all that school stuff and stressing about it all just kinda hit me like a ton of bricks yesterday and then I sleep for 12 hours LOL.
My co-worker has been a bee-atch all week and she's killing me. Glad it's almost Friday.
BTW, I love the fact that JM used the whole "entitlement" attitude in her last post. Funny, that we talked about that just a few days ago. Suspicious timing.
I read JM's latest post and had to laugh. It was humorous to me that things like "broken" were mentioned so many times. How many times has it been said that we really hope that she is broken and sees what real struggle and pain are and how we hoped this trip would do that for her?
Honestly I have a hard time buying that she has been effected by their struggles on a level of compassion as opposed to how it effects her. Especially when the people are hardly mentioned in her post.
Thanks HiT....generally I am thrilled if I get like 6 hours of sleep....apparently the key is passing out dead to the world early not expecting to 'sleep in' since I was awake at my normal 730-8 LOL
Even though I was on her BF 24/7, I hardly ever when to her blog. She once "outed" my blog (aka: linked my blog on her blog post) and I didn't know it for 2 days until one of my IRL friends asked if that was me on JM's blog. It was kind of crazy.
I hate jobs where I have to work with THAT person.....too many times I have had THAT coworker and I just wanted to show them the proper uses for duct tape.
Shannon: LOL! I have had to bite my tongue so many times. She's the one that ALWAYS needs help when she gets overwhelmed. Tuesday she almost threw a temper tantrum. I'm NOT sorry that I am efficient and can get my job done but I refuse to help someone who shows such poor time management skills.
Yeah, she comes in and says, "do you have covers for MY job for David" - its been discussed, because she is territorial that these jobs are Kraftsman jobs and there is no such thing as mine or yours, but it goes in one ear and out the other. She just said it so rudely.
The construction manager gave me some covers and just said to give them to this guy when he came and I said okay.
One of the tutors at the community college I used to attend had some fabulous sayings. My favorite was, "Your failure to plan does not make it my EMERGENCY!"
Please HiT use it....post it on your station....get it tattooed on your forehead LOL if it gets the point across that it is not up to YOU to get her job done then it will all be worth it.
Anyone here live in Missouri - my brother in law and his band (or should I say the band he plays in) will be in Joplin tomorrow and Columbia on Saturday!
This is for the Red Dirt Hurricane Tour
Guitars Country Bar on Friday
Snorty Horse Saloon on Saturday - http://www.snortyhorse.com/
Kristen, I live close-ish (Whiteman AFB area), but being pregnant with 2 boys and a deployed husband have kind of put a damper on my rockin urges. Sounds like fun though. What kind of music to they play?
They play Texas Country or Red Dirt - its a bit more "rocker" or "edgy" than traditional Country.
They are really good. If you are on myspace, some of their songs are there and just looked - they have their music on facebook too: http://tiny.cc/t2n6E
I have the busiest day on record today. This is, like, the only free 10 minutes I have before M. wakes from her nap. And I spend it with you. ::sighs contentedly::
Having a sad day guys.. it's a wonder how clichey people can be, even as adults. I'm amazed at how many people say things with no consideration for someone elses feelings. Floored really.
Kristin, we might be going to San Antonio; my FIL is consulting on a job there, and misses his granddaughters. I agree to go on the condition that Mr. BD and I get to go to Austin for a night or two, by ourselves, no kids. We can go whenever we want, and we were thinking about May because there's no way in Hell I'm going to Texas in the summer. 5 Summers in New Orleans cured me of THAT. But Mr. BD insists it's not humid there. I think he's full of shit. I just needed some proof. :)
I am trying to catch up here.Hubbs is going back to work tomorrow after over 8 months at home.They told him the 15th which left time to find a car but we are in a rush now... AP will answer in a bit
We were thinking about April, but the tickets are more expensive because of spring break/Easter. Mr. BD's parents are paying, but we don't want to stick them with $1500 if we can help it. Because I am NOT holding M. for the flight. Been there, done that, been kicked and pinched way too much.
My dad was born in Victoria, TX and they lived in San Antonio, so I'm eager to see it. And I miss living in a town with a music scene, so I'm really loving the idea of going there sans kids.
Not sure, Kristin. I'm sure my in-laws have tons of ideas. We have a Sea World here in San Diego, so we might opt to do something else.
I was born in NY and now live in southern California. And I've never been so happy to live here as when my parents last week, after a massive storm lost their lights, water, heat and phones for four days.
AP - Just check out your local YMCA - ours right now is having it's Invest In Youth Campaign and there are all sorts of giving levels. You can give one time or monthly or whatever works for you. I don't know if the campaign is held at the same time nationally or not. Our branch wants to raise $165,000 to cover scholarships for all the kids who are on waiting lists for camps, sports, and afterschool care. We are members for the gym, so we are just going to have an extra $5 taken out with our membership fees monthly. It's not a whole lot, but it's what we can do right now.
I am in love with SoCal. It took my sister and myself a year to convince my parents that the 12 hours flight was totally worth it...Can't wait to be there this Summer. Plus, the weather is just perfect there.
My sister lives in SoCal and would never, ever come back to Alabama. She absolutely loves it there. The weather is perfection. She has one of those ideal California back yards with a pool and palm trees and orange trees with fruit on them. I plan to retire at her house. We'll be kicking her husband out, at some point.
And by "never, ever come back to Alabama," I mean she would never move back. She visits a couple of times a year. She's always happy to go back though! Her girls are 12 and 14 and are old enough now that she drops them off at Disneyland for a few hours at a time by themselves. They have season tickets and have a blast together.
Yeah. SoCal is the dream. The host family I stayed with had a wonderful house in Laguna Beach with an ocean view, a jacuzzi and peach trees in their backyard. Perfection. Sigh.
Kristin- Honestly, I don't think if Tilikum *has to be killed but she obviously can't be a part of Sea World and the likes. Let's face it, she killed 3 people. I don't know if it'd be possible to send her back to the ocean?
And, stoning a killer whale? Are these people nuts? It would take an awful lot to kill her with stones and that would be pure cruelty. Also, killing the owner? WTF?
I mean it is cruel to house her at Sea World -it is like putting you in a bathtub for 25 years and making you do tricks for food. She is a wild animal and I think once a wild animal, always a wild animal.
I saw something on Jane Velez Mitchell about a Sanctuary off the coast of Brazil - I think something like that would be ideal. Kind of like they do hear on land for animals that have been kept in captivity and the owners no longer want them. Larger areas for them to roam, have "live" food to use hunting insticts, etc.
I agree that after the first incident, they should have kept her off of exhibit and not used her but "tricks" are also a way for them to "think", etc.
But without the likes of SeaWorlds, etc, not many people would actually know much about these animals.
Except for I think they should just release the whale back into the wild. No matter what they do, it's going to be inhumane, but she still seems to have hunting instinct, so she might do okay. I *don't think you should stone an orca, or it's owner, though. Just sayin'.
Everyone is welcome! The only real rules here are no spamming shit and no posting personal addresses, phone numbers or other similar info. I don't need that kind of stress. That's it, although it could change if someone gets creative or something. If you don't like what is said here, you can: 1) Say so; 2) Hold it in and stew on it; 3. Address it privately to the person who said it; 4) Snark about it to your friends; 5) Leave. Don't bother me with it, I don't care and I won't get involved. I might, however, talk about you behind your back or post your email/message to me on here. *grins*
Them's the rules...all of them.
Have fun!
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 400 of 480 Newer› Newest»I'm going to watch The Hangover with husband. I heard some of you talking about it quite a while back. Hope it's good for some giggles.
Bella, I get that way in the summer months...just down and blah. I stay squirreled away and come out at night and on rainy days. That shared, enjoy your game!
BD, we're not even all that exciting these last couple of days and you're still addicted. Excellent. ;-)
Tis true, AP, tis true.
Singer-dude has sweaty armpits.
Hi everyone!
Hey FT! Hi Mulie! Hi CK! and whomever else I missed!
LM has had a shower and has clean PJ's on and is in bed!
I'm tired, have a low grade fever, and my throat hurts but I need to change my sheets, clean the kitchen and start another load of laundry.
::wiping my computers screen so I'm not exposed to Kristin's cootie-germs::
It has been very quiet around here...I blame it on only 2 weeks left of the term myself :)
I have almost finals panic going on LOL
AHHHHHH help!!!!
The dogs are having a wrestling match on my bed!!!
I am curled up in the corner with the laptop LOL
I am so-o-o sleepys tonight. Tonight's going to be an early night. Or I might pull an AP and fall asleep right on ya.
sounds like a plan AP!
OK, we have decided to beat the winter doldrums with this:
http://www.mysugarmaple.com/
Next weekend. 60 craft beers on tap in Milwaukee.
"When depressed, drink!" is our motto.
Actually, I am giving the ol' college try to my beer blog. This should help.
Awesome Bella! Sounds like fun!
Sorry you're feeling crappy, Kristin. Hopefully it goes away quickly :)
alright ladies!
Goodnight!
just saw an interesting story on the news.
http://www.myfoxhouston.com/dpp/health/baby-born-with-brain-outside-head-survives
now I'm going to bed!
Ugh, this is ridiculous. I sat down to watch Shear Genius and fell asleep again. Go for it, FT, it seems to work well for me.
Shannon, I hope things get to going better for you with the math stuff. You shound beyone stressed. :-(
Kristin, feel better and you, too, SW. I miss you around here.
What the heck do they do with that baby's brain? I mean, do they have it in a little bag hanging from his head or something? Maybe that's why they need all the socks...maybe they stuff it into a clean sock?
"You shound beyone stressed."
And I shound beyone drunk. Damn.
I think Daisy died.
Shall we just shut the doors for good tomorrow?
*stern look*
Here's a question or ten for everyone: Whatever happened to shame? Why have we become a nation (world? FT, Corinne and DK?) that no longer has any shame? It used to be shameful to be a parent who can't support your children on your own. To not be able to provide a basic roof over the children you chose to bring into this world on your own or basic food for them. It used to be shameful to have a child out of wedlock (and trust me, I use the word wedlock loosely since I have no fondness for government-sanctioned marriage). It used to be shameful to not pay your bills, to not meet your agreed obligations. It used to be shameful to cheat on a spouse and lord knows I did that and was ashamed (still am) but many people still find me silly to be ashamed oof it over 10 years later. I'm just curious as to what everyone things was the defining factor is in bringing that down because frankly, I think we could all do with a lot more shame for our poor actions. Instead, now, we seem to want to put labels on it and excuse it. And this isn't random, by the way...it's a chain of thought resulting from reading some blogs (no one from our group, past or present) that I've not read in ages.
Yeah, those typos? You're imagining them.
I'm going to farm and then go to bed.
G'night, y'all.
Morning Sarah - I hear ya on the cajones part and the resentment part. I am sorry you are having a rough time.
Morning all others.
SO seems to be sick. I told him he should probably go to the doctor.
I have a headache :(
How are you feeling AP? SW?
I am ashamed about a lot of things, especially about having a child out of wedlock and it was so hard to tell my mother because of that shame. I am so very grateful for him in my life though.
Alright, going to go take something for the throbbing in my head and get ready for work!
Hi ladies!
BD- I hope your friend and her baby will be alright.
As for dry shampoo, do you have the brand Klorane in the US? Their dry shampoo is good.
CK- I should copyright my comments? ;-) LOL. I really don't mind that she used it. :)
Kristin- You should really go to a physician for your headaches; you have them quite often. I realize that the lack of sleep doesn't help... Sorry :(
AP- I think there is a sense of entitlement amongst people from my generation, hence the lack of shame. Many young adults feel as though they deserve all the financial aid they can get, and they don't think about the future.
Corinne - Morning! I think the headache is b/c I am about to start. Not that you wanted to know that but I think that is what it is.
How are you?
Kristin- I'm fine :) It's a beautiful day out, so that makes me happy.
Plus, I bought this new cleaning product which I was eager to try, so I cleaned the house. It smells great.
Morning Ladies!
AP, I think a lot of people are 'passing the buck' and not taking owership of whatever the problem/situation might be.
I forgot to add that I also baked a chocolate fondant that is delish!
Hi Sandy!
Hi Corinne, how are you? I love chocolate!
Jealous Corinne!
Hey Sandy!
I'm great, Sandy! And you?
I'm good, thanks. Trying to get my daughter up for school. Fun times.
Sandy- That does not sound like fun :(
There are two new posts up on under1000BC. The fake interview is awesome. So funny.
Anyone read JM's post today?
Anyone believe her?
Hey Kristin!
So she's giving up Chipotle??
Kristin- It would take an awful lot for me to believe what that woman is saying.
That post -well, the 'feelings' in it- sounds eerily similar to the one Kelly Stamps (I think) posted after her Compassion trip.
I'll see if I can find the link.
My mistake, it was Melissa Fitzpatrick from LPM who went to India with Compassion.
http://livingproofministries.blogspot.com/2009/04/how-do-you-like-my-house.html
Anyways, read that post, then read Mck's...
Corinne, you can tell the entire post is written based on emotions. Would I say something like that if I was in a 3rd World country with people living in squalor (sp?), you can bet your life on it.
Would I come home and sell my stuff and live in a trailer down by the lake? Reality, absolutely not.
Sandy- You know something that annoys me with that 'Compassion' thing? That they have to travel so far away to be touched by human misery. For God's sake, there are people living in squalor in Europe and America too; there are people dying on the streets here too; there are people who can't afford basic healthcare here too.
It just annoys me. We should care about the people here and solve their problems before traveling halfway across the world to realize that, yes, there are people who don't know how they'll get through the day or even afford food to feed their family.
WOW Corinne - a lot of similarities.
Morning all! Catching up on comments from yesterday:
AP said: “Oh, and how I woke up from my nap? My dumbfuck son is sitting 3 feet from me with an electric bass and an amp, totally oblivious to anyone but himself, and belts out with the theme song from Jeopardy. When I shot 3 feet up and came down cussing, he looks all confused and says, "I"m sorry...am I bothering you?"
This? Made me LOL!
BD, you are a good friend. Hope your bedrest friend is doing well. Muffalettas rock.
Bella, this time of the year is hard. Right before it starts to get warm. I’m so freaking sick of wearing my coat, which is dirty and needs a good cleaning.
AP, I agree with you that the summer is worse for me. Our summers aren’t as brutal as yours, but they are bad. August is the pits.
CK, let us know how you like The Hangover. It was the funniest movie I’ve ever seen.
Sarah, thanks for sharing. I really admire your honesty.
AP, I thought your “shame” question/rant was a wee bit harsh. But you warned us you were in a foul mood. :-) For what it's worth, I blame the baby boomers, who, for whatever reason, eschewed the good parenting they got in favor of “liberal” parenting that is not responsibility-based.
I'm feeling a bit better today, but still kinda lousy and definitely phlegmy. Ugh. Hope the other sickies are doing better today.
Corinne -- I've said exactly that same thing in so many words, and posted those sentiments to the Pioneer Woman's site when they did their whole Compassion trip. I think it's just fine and dandy, but there are people in your *own country, suffering, and I really think you ought to start at home if you're going to help out. JMO and all that.
Shame. I have plenty. And today is not the day for me to be talking about it. Fuck.
Corinne - I so totally agree!!! All you have to do is work with a local food bank or aid agency and you see just as much squalor - it's just a little prettier. I'm not saying we shouldn't help internationally because we should, but there are soooo many needs in your own back yard.
And I would *not at all be happy to donate money to sponsor a child and find out that it's paid for trip upon trip for bloggers. I would definitely be interested to know how much of your dollar actually goes to the child as opposed to advertising, PR and other overhead.
And I'm not going to read JM's post, because it's complete BS. I don't even have to read it to know it's BS. But I heart Melissa Fitzpatrick. And I am being completely sincere when I say LPM has changed my life. In case y'all were wondering.
And a big good morning to y'all :)
RiM - having a bad day? I'm so sorry!
Hey SW - glad you are feeling better.
I just want sleep!
Hey Linds!
How are you?
Well said Corinne and everyone for that matter.
Kristin- Right?! It's like JM read that post and then wrote her own.
Hi SW! Glad to hear you're doing better :)
Hi RiM- Yeah. These 'compassion bloggers'are completely oblivious to what is happening in their *own country and it's only when someone offers them a trip that costs several thousands dollars that they write posts saying 'My heart is breaking. These people have nothing, yet they are willing to give you a lot. I realized I am so selfish'. Well, fuck. This is totally obnoxious of them. Plus, I'm sure Mck is toting her camera that costs more than the homes she's visiting in Kenya. Grrr.
Hi Lindsay!
Okay - so totally random - but I don't go to church - have thought about it to be a "part" of something, to be involved in the community but helping others is obviously something that I am very interested in.
Can anyone point me in a direction that I could look at helping - at some point I would love to travel to get the cultural aspect, but I know there is much suffering here on our backyard. I guess I could look at soup kitchens and stuff. I don't want to be a part of something that uses money for advertising and "looks" but something that is "real".
I guess I need to look at what is local.
Hey K! I'm sorry you've not been feeling well. We are fighting it over here. Hubs sounds like he belongs in the TB ward. Hopefully the rest of us won't get it that bad - mostly because I hate him and want him to suffer ::wink:: but want the rest of us to be find :) Is LM still on his nebulizer, or is he free of it? Oh, and any news on your grandpa?
Kristin - I would call the United Way. They can usually match you up with agencies that need volunteers and you can find one that you are interested in. My favorite where I live and have volunteered with for a long time was found that way.
Very cool Lindsay. Thanks!
I woke up to the smell of Icey Hot and SO puking! Good times!
He has been complaining of a knot in his side and thought it was a pulled muscle, said the Icey Hot made it feel better. He spoke to his cousin (in Colorado) who is a trainer who said it sounded like a pulled muscle but after the puking today, I'm thinking it might be something else. I told him he better go see a doctor. He said he will tomorrow.
Good times!
There is always Habitat for Humanity and any thrift store, children's hospitals, VA hospitals, the Red Cross, and March of Dimes, just right off the top of my head, Kristen. Figure out what you are interested in doing and choose an organization based on your interests.
Sarah, that would be hard when you have a child who need special care...you need a partner in that, someone you can have absolute trust in. I've never been there but it seems to me like having a spouse you can't totally trust in making good decisions might be harder than just doing it alone. And as to the shame thing, I don't think anyone ever ought to be ashamed of having little or not-so-great things as long as you came by what you have honestly and on your own. Speaking only for myself, I have more *far respect and admiration for someone living in an old, ratty travel trailer they pay for themselves than someone living in a better, subsidized place. Not that I'm saying you live in an old, ratty travel trailer, mind you. I just don't think you should be ashamed of your house maybe not being so great, that's all.
And good morning, all!
Corinne, I think you're right about the sense of entitlement in young people now. I see it in my own to a degree and lord knows he was raised with me so he ought not be that way. But even in people more my age, I see it and just don't understand it.
By the way, what's the new cleaning product you found?
Hi AP & Mulie!
Kristin- Knot on the lower right side? If so, it could be appendicitis.
I like habitat - I have done that once through a company I used to work for but I didn't get to meet the family or see pics of the finished project or anything.
I have thought about Red Cross b/c when I was down in Galveston I volunteered at a shelter every day and we had a student that was sent to Louisiana b/c she was part of the coast guard or similar.
I just need to get back to volunteering. My problem is LM - I either need him to come along or find someone to watch him. My family doesn't understand my need and I feel uncomfortable asking them.
Hmmmm.....thanks guys!
Morning AP! What is on your agenda today?
Corinne - I don't know what side, I'm trying to visualize how he was laying and where he had the ice but for the life of me, I can't.
oh, and AP how are you feeling?
You may be able to find a small organization that would let you bring him. When Chloe was a baby, I just set up the play pen and helped out while Grayson played. Then when Chloe became a toddler and Grayson was in preschool, it got a little harder, so I cut back, but now I'm ready to get back into the swing of things. A lot of organizations realize that mothers of young children have a lot to contribute, so they are cool with bringing the kids along. I think especially if you find a charity where kids are their main focus. My organization provides free clothing to school aged kids, so kids are a passion for everyone who volunteers there, which made mine even more accepted.
AP- It's called MrPropre Home Therapy and the fragrance is Grapefruit & Green Tea. I think MrPropre is MrClean in the US but I don't know if they carry that product in America because I know the rules concerning detergents vary from country to country.
It smells great, though :)
'AP, I thought your “shame” question/rant was a wee bit harsh. But you warned us you were in a foul mood. :-) For what it's worth, I blame the baby boomers, who, for whatever reason, eschewed the good parenting they got in favor of “liberal” parenting that is not responsibility-based."
I don't think I was harsh...shame is an underrated emotion these days and I think it should make a comeback. I do agree with what you said here, though. It did seem to all start with the boomer generation but I can't seem to pinpoint what specific thing started it, if anything.
Glad you're feeling better!
I'm echoing everyone else here about poverty and squalor right here in our own country. It doesn't make for reading as interesting as going to Africa, though. Here's my take on that...I'd bet the majority of Mck's readers (in fact, the majority of most mom-blogges' readers) are white and that variety of white people don't want to see a bunch of poor white or brown kids. It's not good enough for them. They want to see poor, very dark black kids with flies on their noses and distended bellies massed around a white Christian woman who has come to save them so they can feel *really* self-righteous about their $20 donation.
I guess maybe that one needs an "oopsie daisy...I said that?" added on.
Sarah, Hang in there, sister. We have our own set of problems here that do not make for a barrel of laughs, so while I can't directly relate, I feel you on more than a few husband related points.
Just read MWoP - yeah, not to thrilled about JM's new post :)
I just read We Are That Family - so much about the child she met and the home she visited with just a brief mention about her child at home.
Yeah, Lindsay, I probably need to find something that is geared towards kids.
Hey Taiya! Why lurking? Come join the masses :)
Did yu read JM's latest post? What are your thoughts?
I once did a volunteer trip to the poorest county in the US on a Lakota Reservation. There is was lack of jobs and opportunities. In Africa, it is undeveloped and politically charged. I believe there is quite a difference. I think that the tribes in Africa should be modernized, only if they want to, not because we think they need to be. Africa needs to be safe for woman and children and I think the should have access to clean water and vaccines.
AP, I think you hit the nail on the head. I totally agree.
Hi Taiya! (And comments on names are NEVER useless! I'm obsessed with names myself :) )
AP- I totally agree with what you said re: white mommy bloggers & readers and poverty.
Kristin- What's the link to We Are That Family?
Corinne, that cleaner sounds wonderful! I know Mr. Clean doesn't have that scent here or I'd have bought it already. I did find a gardenia scented cleaner the other day and used it over the whole house before the HFH came. It smelled *so good in here.
Thanks Taiya! We figured at least there wouldn't be a whole lot of Graysons out there. We actually tried to pick unpopular names for all our boys, but when we got a daughter we picked a totally trendy name. Don't know why!
Is your daughter feeling better? (I wasn't keeping notes, but I call my kids snot buckets when they're sick, too!)
She is feeling so much better! In turn Mommy is feeling better. It's so nice to sleep at night again!
Taiya, We are having the same problem. I have a few girl names that I love, but hubby isn't feeling them. He likes the name Rowen and that is just not rolling off my tongue.
I think it wouldn't have quite the same impact if some of these mommy bloggers went and volunteered at the local Y during their Invest in Youth campaign and helped inner city youth. It's just not shiny and flashy. Even though, I just found out that $5/month can keep one kid in the after school program and off the street or help needy children get swimming lessons. That's something pretty important, too.
Taiya, it's fine to comment or not - whatever feels best to you but now I'm curious about your brother.
AP- Gardenia cleaner...that sounds great. We have so many different scents at home, it's crazy. Everytime I go grocery shopping, I buy a new one. If you ever see me in a store, I'll be smelling the cleaning products ;-)
Taiya- I sometimes lurk on the babynames.com board, need name advice section. They have great discussions about names going on there.
Oh and try nymbler.com. Cool site.
"Even though, I just found out that $5/month can keep one kid in the after school program and off the street or help needy children get swimming lessons. That's something pretty important, too."
It really is, Lindsay. What programs are these through...any you can share here? I admit, I'm a strong believer in not wasting money, even on people.
wearethatfamily.com
Taiya - no worries!
Lindsay - on the grandfather front, my aunt e-mailed me and says that grandpa likes to expand on his problems and also doesn't get all the info. So for now, apparently he has not scheduled the surgery. My uncle was down there and went to talk to the doctor with my grandpa but ended up my grandpa didn't have an appt and doc wasn't around so they talked to a nurse.
It's up in the air right now, all they know is it is cancer and he needs surgery.
Thanks for asking.
"I admit, I'm a strong believer in not wasting money, even on people."
Just on late fees. ::snicker::
*only snickering because I have recently doled out a few myself.
oh, and AP - mail!
Taiya, Not the biggest fan, for myself that is, of names ending in the "lee" or "e" sound. Coming from a person who's names ends in an "e" sound and current fav baby name ends in "e" sound.
Oh, and my sister just informed me that she is having FREE shipping for Scentsy for the month of March!
Her info is on my blog or you can e-mail me and I'll send it to you. She says you just have to e-mail her your order.
Thanks!
Mulie- same here. Not big on the "e" endings.
Kristin- love the zebra butt on your blog! :D
Also, if the popularity of names is something important to you (i.e. not using a name that is too common), you can check names popularity on this site:
http://www.ssa.gov/OACT/babynames/
lol - thanks Taiya! I actually took that at the zoo a few weeks back! :)
Kristin - Thanks for the link :)
WOW! I just looked at DetzelPretzel's pics! I see a few pics of Kristen and of one of the other guys with the kids, but hmmmm....no JM!
http://www.flickr.com/photos/detzelpretzel/sets/72157623424750539/
It astonishes me that she didn't mention or give any background really about Compassion or the fact that she was sponsoring a child. She is selfish and all about her. Heaven forbid the sheeple send money to these people and not her.
Corinne, you're really my daughter, aren't you? ;-) We have two lines of cleaners here, Fabuloso and Festival, that come in the best scents! I get so darn excited when they make a new one.
""I admit, I'm a strong believer in not wasting money, even on people."
Just on late fees. ::snicker::"
THAT WAS MEAN!
And totally justified, dammit.
SW - I was going to make your roast today but I woke up late and after hearing a sick SO, I figured I will try tomorrow since I should have prepped the night before and I didn't. I also had to pack LM's lunch which I usually do the night before also and didn't.
I do have all the ingredients though.
I hate to do this again but AP - did you see where I said you have e-mail?
Kristin, I hope the roast turns out good. AP's suggestion to use onion soup mix in lieu of some of the seasoning is a good idea too. I forgot that I sometimes do that.
"I hate to do this again but AP - did you see where I said you have e-mail?"
LOL Kristin! Lord have mercy, don't you think the SIP lurkers are snickering at that? Good times!
Taiya, I think there are many, many people like your brother. If you're going to preach it, though, then *do something about it, I agree. And if I were you, I'd not limit the picking to just him. ;-)
I think I'm going to purposely not answer Kristin so that she can keep asking. ;-)
Jill, are you out there? Was just thinking of you and wondering how things are. How did the memorial service go?
You guys are mean, really really mean!
See if I try to be nice!
<---------POUTING!
"Corinne, you're really my daughter, aren't you? ;-)"
Be careful, AP! CK said that I am all hers! LOL:-D
I'm totally NOT checking the websites of the cleaning supplies brands you mentioned. LOL :P
Ok seriously do you people know what you did to me last night???!!
Now I realize that many of you life in Eastern Time but I live in Pacific. I am on here last night and reading about how tired you all are. I had to put the computer down and decided to play some video games to wake me back up....Yeah didnt work!!!!
I was passed out dead to the world at 8 freaking 30 last night!!!! And I only woke up about 45 minutes ago. That is not something that ever happens LOL
Sorry, AP! (slaps own hand)
Wow, Shannon! It sounds like you needed a good rest. I've been sleeping looonng nights too. Last night asleep before 9:30, slept until 7:00. Amazing what good a triple dose of Nyquil can do!
Triple dose! Yikes!
Shannon it does sound like you needed some rest, sometimes that "thinking" thing is exhausting!
Oh and the DetzelPretzel that is on the trip, I really like his photography style.
http://thisisreverb.com/
Morning girls!
"Amazing what good a triple dose of Nyquil can do!"
Get any good closed eye visuals, SW? ;-)
Morning HiT! Are you enjoying the fabulous weather we are having?
I am! It sucks to be at work. Had yesterday off for my nephew's birthdasy and enjoyed every minute of the sunshine!
Very cool! I so do not want to be working!
Morning HiT.
Yes I think I really did need that extra sleep. It is amazing how all that school stuff and stressing about it all just kinda hit me like a ton of bricks yesterday and then I sleep for 12 hours LOL.
My co-worker has been a bee-atch all week and she's killing me. Glad it's almost Friday.
BTW, I love the fact that JM used the whole "entitlement" attitude in her last post. Funny, that we talked about that just a few days ago. Suspicious timing.
Shannon: I would kill to sleep 12 hours. I don't sleep longer than 1-2 hours without waking; have bad insomnia. So glad you got lots of sleep!
I read JM's latest post and had to laugh. It was humorous to me that things like "broken" were mentioned so many times. How many times has it been said that we really hope that she is broken and sees what real struggle and pain are and how we hoped this trip would do that for her?
Honestly I have a hard time buying that she has been effected by their struggles on a level of compassion as opposed to how it effects her. Especially when the people are hardly mentioned in her post.
Thanks HiT....generally I am thrilled if I get like 6 hours of sleep....apparently the key is passing out dead to the world early not expecting to 'sleep in' since I was awake at my normal 730-8 LOL
It's all for show. What else was she going to say?
Bragging here, I've gone for well over a week without reading a word of JM's! Didn't even read the RV small penis post! Woohoo!
Yeah for you SW! I'm still trying to burn RV's post out of my brain. I just can't help but watch the trainwreck that is JM.
LOL SW you are awesome!!!
Did anyone else notice that this post sure sounds a lot like the one she did a while back about how Stellan's illness affected her?
Ya know the one with all the 'raw' emotion all about Jennifer? Yeah she sounded broken then too but was able to get over it pretty darn quickly.
Even though I was on her BF 24/7, I hardly ever when to her blog. She once "outed" my blog (aka: linked my blog on her blog post) and I didn't know it for 2 days until one of my IRL friends asked if that was me on JM's blog. It was kind of crazy.
Talking about the weather in BF. Nothing big, but I did try and read he blog more often after that.
Oh HiT - I feel your pain, ho-worker is such a witch with a capital B!
uggggghhhhhhhhh!
I hate jobs where I have to work with THAT person.....too many times I have had THAT coworker and I just wanted to show them the proper uses for duct tape.
Shannon: LOL! I have had to bite my tongue so many times. She's the one that ALWAYS needs help when she gets overwhelmed. Tuesday she almost threw a temper tantrum. I'm NOT sorry that I am efficient and can get my job done but I refuse to help someone who shows such poor time management skills.
Yeah, she comes in and says, "do you have covers for MY job for David" - its been discussed, because she is territorial that these jobs are Kraftsman jobs and there is no such thing as mine or yours, but it goes in one ear and out the other. She just said it so rudely.
The construction manager gave me some covers and just said to give them to this guy when he came and I said okay.
Whatever! She is just annoying!
UGGGGG so a slacker and a possessive ignorant type.....wooohooo you gals are soooooo lucky :(
One of the tutors at the community college I used to attend had some fabulous sayings. My favorite was, "Your failure to plan does not make it my EMERGENCY!"
Yes. I definitely need the duct tape most days.
Shannon: I love that! I am so going to use that today!
That is why I no longer sit in the back with her or one day I would say something and we would end up in a knock down drag down.
She is very selfish and never, ever goes out of her way for anyone, especially the owners.
Okay, enough bitching and complaining.
HiT - yeah, poor time management - her fault, not yours.
I know I spend a lot of time here but I can multi-task and if someone needs something, it gets done.
Please HiT use it....post it on your station....get it tattooed on your forehead LOL if it gets the point across that it is not up to YOU to get her job done then it will all be worth it.
Shannon: I am typing it up as we speak and plastering it to my wall.
Anyone here live in Missouri - my brother in law and his band (or should I say the band he plays in) will be in Joplin tomorrow and Columbia on Saturday!
This is for the Red Dirt Hurricane Tour
Guitars Country Bar on Friday
Snorty Horse Saloon on Saturday - http://www.snortyhorse.com/
LOL! The Snorty Horse!
Nice HiT maybe she will get the point :)
I attached it to my file cabinet with a No Whining magnet.
AWESOME HiT!
Kristen, I live close-ish (Whiteman AFB area), but being pregnant with 2 boys and a deployed husband have kind of put a damper on my rockin urges. Sounds like fun though. What kind of music to they play?
HiT, do you think it would also work on family members?
*The Snorty Horse!!! HAHAHA! Love it.
Sandy: LOL!
They play Texas Country or Red Dirt - its a bit more "rocker" or "edgy" than traditional Country.
They are really good. If you are on myspace, some of their songs are there and just looked - they have their music on facebook too: http://tiny.cc/t2n6E
Hey everyone.
I have the busiest day on record today. This is, like, the only free 10 minutes I have before M. wakes from her nap. And I spend it with you. ::sighs contentedly::
Does anyone know what the weather is like in San Antonio/Austin in May?
BD - it varies but usually fairly nice, probably humid:
http://www.cityrating.com/citytemperature.asp?City=San+Antonio
http://www.rssweather.com/climate/Texas/San%20Antonio/
high chance of rain (for May) but you never know with this damn texas weather.
Are you looking at a vacation there?
It's nice, the river walk, sea world, etc.
Hi Bd!
Here's what I found on wikipedia re:weather in Austin
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Austin,_Texas#Climate
I have no idea how reliable this is, though.
Austin is nice too, lots of stuff to do outdoors there.
Plus 6th street.
Having a sad day guys.. it's a wonder how clichey people can be, even as adults. I'm amazed at how many people say things with no consideration for someone elses feelings. Floored really.
What's up LFoB?
Do i need to open a can of whoop a$$?
Sorry you are having a sad day!
Oh, I have a new post up. Nothing exciting - just thought I'd share.
What happened, LFoB?
Kristin, we might be going to San Antonio; my FIL is consulting on a job there, and misses his granddaughters. I agree to go on the condition that Mr. BD and I get to go to Austin for a night or two, by ourselves, no kids. We can go whenever we want, and we were thinking about May because there's no way in Hell I'm going to Texas in the summer. 5 Summers in New Orleans cured me of THAT. But Mr. BD insists it's not humid there. I think he's full of shit. I just needed some proof. :)
I am trying to catch up here.Hubbs is going back to work tomorrow after over 8 months at home.They told him the 15th which left time to find a car but we are in a rush now...
AP
will answer in a bit
Dkmissie, congrats for you and your husband!
I just got back from lunch with clients. Only had one embarrassing coughing fit, so that was good. Now I want a nap.
SW, I too want to nap. I'm going to have to make some more coffee.
What was for lunch SW? Sorry for the coughing!
Yeah DK!
It's always humid in TX, even when its cold. I think a little north it isn't quite so bad though, down here it sucks!
did I mention we are getting more snow..after it just all melted !?!
Lunch was about four bites of a cobb salad, the rest of which is in the fridge.
Boo for more snow, DK!
Is is bad that I am purposely doing my work slow so I don't have to help my ho-worker?
HiT, it is most definitely not bad. In fact, in my world view, it is good.
I've always thought San Antonio would be a cool place to visit, BD. Definitely not in the summer though. I'd go in April.
San Antonio is very nice in the Spring.
HiT: no judgement here.
I now want a cobb salad; the two pieces of toast with hummus and baba ganouj are not cutting it. Thanks, SW. :(
I had Chicken spring rolls with peanut sauce and I am still hungry. Have been craving frozen yougurt.
San Antonio is awesome.On our second trip "home" Hubby and I went there and he loved the River Walk.
SW:
We were thinking about April, but the tickets are more expensive because of spring break/Easter. Mr. BD's parents are paying, but we don't want to stick them with $1500 if we can help it. Because I am NOT holding M. for the flight. Been there, done that, been kicked and pinched way too much.
No judging here either!
BD - do you plan on going to seaworld? I want to take LM soon. Fiesta Texas is also there.
My dad was born in Victoria, TX and they lived in San Antonio, so I'm eager to see it. And I miss living in a town with a music scene, so I'm really loving the idea of going there sans kids.
Not sure, Kristin. I'm sure my in-laws have tons of ideas. We have a Sea World here in San Diego, so we might opt to do something else.
Congrats on husband's job, DK!
Going there referred to Austin, and the music scene there.
true - forgot about that! duh!
We did the Riverwalk over the summer and got on one of the boats - omg - it was so hot and crowded.
yes, very big music scene.
I <3 Sea World San Diego.
I'm hoping to convince my parents to go when we're in Calif. this July.
That's totally random, I know.
I've only been to the one in San Antonio.
A few of our rescue dolphins are in San Antonio, those rehabbed but not deemed fit by NOAA for release.
Cupid is in MarineLand in California.
BD I am from Victoria :)
Really, DK? I've never even known anyone to know where it was. :)
Grandparents were in the Air Force.
Kristin- I thought of something. Can you apply for a job at SeaWorld or something similar?
I thought about that and would LOVE to but you have to be in the right place at the right time and "know" someone.
Corine:
Let me know if you come to San Diego. I would meet you for a meal or at least a drink.
Bd I was born in SA and raised in Victoria :D
gosh I miss texas today
Sorry DK!
I'd imagine, DK.
I was born in NY and now live in southern California. And I've never been so happy to live here as when my parents last week, after a massive storm lost their lights, water, heat and phones for four days.
AP - Just check out your local YMCA - ours right now is having it's Invest In Youth Campaign and there are all sorts of giving levels. You can give one time or monthly or whatever works for you. I don't know if the campaign is held at the same time nationally or not. Our branch wants to raise $165,000 to cover scholarships for all the kids who are on waiting lists for camps, sports, and afterschool care. We are members for the gym, so we are just going to have an extra $5 taken out with our membership fees monthly. It's not a whole lot, but it's what we can do right now.
Going back to lurking, now :)
Kristin- Gotcha. I hope you'll be able to do it someday, though. *fingers crossed*
Bd- I'll let you know if I come to San Diego :)
Favorite Huffington Post headline of the day: "Jon Gosselin's Playgirl Offer Is Small, Like His Penis"
Lindsay- Don't lurk so much! Talk with us :)
I am in love with SoCal. It took my sister and myself a year to convince my parents that the 12 hours flight was totally worth it...Can't wait to be there this Summer.
Plus, the weather is just perfect there.
Yes Lindsay, do come out and play :)
I have been to San Fran once for about 2 days and loved it. I really would like to come visit again. I want to go to the San Diego Zoo.
My sister lives in SoCal and would never, ever come back to Alabama. She absolutely loves it there. The weather is perfection. She has one of those ideal California back yards with a pool and palm trees and orange trees with fruit on them. I plan to retire at her house. We'll be kicking her husband out, at some point.
And by "never, ever come back to Alabama," I mean she would never move back. She visits a couple of times a year. She's always happy to go back though! Her girls are 12 and 14 and are old enough now that she drops them off at Disneyland for a few hours at a time by themselves. They have season tickets and have a blast together.
SW- That line is A-W-E-S-O-M-E!
Yeah. SoCal is the dream. The host family I stayed with had a wonderful house in Laguna Beach with an ocean view, a jacuzzi and peach trees in their backyard. Perfection. Sigh.
A beach view? Wow, that's neat, Corinne! My sister definitely doesn't have a beach view. She's in Santa Ana.
SW- That was the view from their house:
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/photo.php?pid=30477426&id=1077196479
Sigh.
My sister stayed with a family in Santa Ana. She loved it, too.
Okay - my sister just sent me this:
http://perezhilton.com/2010-03-04-religious-fanatics-want-to-kill-tilikum-the-whale-and-then-some
I think it is ridiculous! Really?
Obviously I have strong opinions on this, mixed too but this is just complete stupidity IMHO.
Mck put a new post up on her blog. How can she be moved by the people in Kenya if she spends her time photoshopping a kabajillion pictures?!
Kristin- Honestly, I don't think if Tilikum *has to be killed but she obviously can't be a part of Sea World and the likes. Let's face it, she killed 3 people.
I don't know if it'd be possible to send her back to the ocean?
And, stoning a killer whale? Are these people nuts? It would take an awful lot to kill her with stones and that would be pure cruelty. Also, killing the owner? WTF?
Right?
I mean it is cruel to house her at Sea World -it is like putting you in a bathtub for 25 years and making you do tricks for food. She is a wild animal and I think once a wild animal, always a wild animal.
I saw something on Jane Velez Mitchell about a Sanctuary off the coast of Brazil - I think something like that would be ideal. Kind of like they do hear on land for animals that have been kept in captivity and the owners no longer want them. Larger areas for them to roam, have "live" food to use hunting insticts, etc.
I agree that after the first incident, they should have kept her off of exhibit and not used her but "tricks" are also a way for them to "think", etc.
But without the likes of SeaWorlds, etc, not many people would actually know much about these animals.
Its a catch 22.
I don't have much to say today ladies!
Except for I think they should just release the whale back into the wild. No matter what they do, it's going to be inhumane, but she still seems to have hunting instinct, so she might do okay. I *don't think you should stone an orca, or it's owner, though. Just sayin'.
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